Ask Me If I Care ~a great statement

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“Ask me is I care” what a great statement. It’s only great in the sense of being true to you. We can get lost and confused when we start to let others tell us what choices to make. We must experience our own journey, make our own mistakes, forgive and love ourselves thru the process and continue to move forward.

Control and manipulation have been around for a long time. There are those who believe that if you aren’t doing it their way, you’re doing it the wrong way. What a bunch of malarkey!

It took me a long time to become my own person and I absolutely love my independence. I covet it and won’t ever give it away again. I recently ran into someone who slowly I’ve been getting to know and becoming friends with for the past 6 months. For the first time in all our meetings, we talked about what I did –The Soul Whisperer. She had some very judgmental and condemning things to say. I talked with her for about an hour and wasn’t sure why I even stayed that long. Was I being sweet, was I trying to justify myself to her.. whatever the reason, I left understanding that our friendship will not go very far. It can’t!

I’ve been mulling this this incident over for days. I wanted to write about it, but I couldn’t write when I was angry. Anger has a way of working its way into my writing and cast slurs and nasties where it shouldn’t be. I truly wanted to leave you with a powerful lesson.

Know who you are and be ok with it. Not everybody is going to approve or like you. Some of the people we can have the hardest time with are those who are closest to us like family, friends and pious individuals. We can succeed without approval, isn’t that right! ß ( this is an exclamation point)

So next time you decide to share something special about you, what you do, who you are and someone tries to ream you a new one, stand strong within yourself and be true to YOU.

There was an email that made its way around several years ago. It’s a bit foggy but let me try and put down what I remember…It was about a man who applied for a position at a church. His resume said he used to be a murderer, a religious hound, he hated and persecuted many. He turned his life over to a wonderful man, loving, humble, reaching the many with a message. The Church told him, I’m sorry but you don’t qualify for a position in our church, we’re looking for people without sordid pasts. His name signed at the bottom was Apostle Paul.

I’m proud of who I am! If someone hates on me, I move on. I want to associate with uplifting and encouraging people in my life. I’m careful who I choose as my inner circle of friends.

With all my love






About Ostara Schultz

Stephen & Ostara Schultz are a Mother/Son duo who are modern medicine healers known as the ‘Spiritual Chefs’. use kitchen analogies to teach how to become their own spiritual Five Star Chef, learning new transformational dishes to release Stale, Icy, old recipes of blocks, resistance and emotional triggers. They teach how to remodel the space they create from and cook up special and delightful life-banquets they’d like to experience and enjoy. They’ve ridden through their own Dark Night of the Soul when they experienced family disowning them, foreclosures, car accidents, near death experiences, drugs and the Complete Dissolution of Life as they knew it… as with any Initiation, this experience just prepared them to now support You… To walk through fire alongside you, to work through any issue or challenge by shamanically unwinding the brambles of spiritual and physical trauma and unlocking the Practical Solutions that have been hidden from You. They now live in the San Joaquin Valley with Eric, Stephen’s dad who is also Ostara’s husband on Life Purpose and puppies. Together they are helping people to create a signature sovereign lifestyle budding with abundance in love, spiritual gifts, money and all the self’s i.e. self-confidence, self-assurance, self-love to name a few. They inspire other heart centered entrepreneurs to align their businesses to a new paradigm of 5D consciousness. Ostara and Eric has a healthy sovereign daughter Lauren, who is happily married to Kyle, whom is absolutely adored by the Schultz’s, two grandchildren with one on the way, they are truly blessed. Reach out to them, they’d love to meet you. Stockton Ca, USA Email: Facebook Ostara Facebook Stephen Facebook: The Spiritual Chefs
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2 Responses to Ask Me If I Care ~a great statement

  1. Jeannette says:

    Hi Veronica,
    I really like this post,it encourages other’s to find who they are especially in the Body of Christ.It tells of your vulnerability with someone you perhaps could have become good friends with,it shows how you made the right decision to stay at arm’s length with those who would tear you down.Jesus’s dealings were mostly postive when approached by people who wanted to know God….His Love,His Forgiveness,these attributes are mandated by His sacrifice,and yet in my family there is alot of derision.
    I always thought my children(there are 5 grown)would be close and care for each other,ha… go…so now I must lean hard on the Lord because I have a tendency towards impatience and do not react positively always…just sometimes lol…but my point is that if Ive learned anything in my 63 years it is that we must be ourselves,warts and all,so that He can make us the best we can be.
    Maranatha,Jeannette…ps please put my family on the prayer list.

  2. Asangire suzan says:

    Very true Veronica, so many times we let people control our live with their opinions but It is us not to let other people opinions control our lives. Thanks for sharing.

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